Social Networking Could Change Your Life, Your Love Life That Is...Seriously!

ALL BECAUSE TWO PEOPLE CREEPED ON FACEBOOK AWWWW....wait....

THIS... is the question I dread getting asked the most. 


NOT BECAUSE... it's this embarrassingly awkward meet-cute and not even because it's lame and boring, it is entirely because the TRUE story about how I met my husband is legitimately shameful and down right creepy ha! My classic (white lie) answer to this question is usually "Oh umm we met through MUTUAL friends" :)...which is technically the less embarrassing version of the truth. 


THE TRUTH IS...we met because some CREEP stalked the other and added them on Facebook...me!! Whoa whoa before you judge, let me explain. He had a few Facebook friends in common with me and his CUTE picture was constantly popping up (okay fine twice) on my friends you may know side bar. SOO one day I did what we ALL are guilty of.. I fbook stalked him haha looking at basically all of his pictures. By creeping on him I learned that he was single (hallelujah), a BYU baseball player (smitten)(one of those girls), tall dark & handsome, an RM (return missionary), stacked, and gives back to his community. DUH, of course I added a complete stranger...I told you it was sketchy!! So that day (shockingly) he messaged me back asking if we have met haha... that was a fun conversation and the rest is history. Facebook is the new MATCH.COM haha! 


HOW IN THE WORLD...do I tell this to our children?! Ironically enough I hated when strangers would message me on fbook! Im not going to lie it was SUPER flattering but it doesn't change the fact that its SO CREEPY. 99.9% of the time a stranger messages you you ignore it (unless your me or they are ridiculously hot) because they sound something like this: 

1. hey girl, i thought i would write ya since i'm sure you don't recognize me. i don't know how to say this w/o soundin like a total stalker but i came across ur profile and had to introduce myself lol. u are beautiful and i wouldn't mind gettin to know u. i'm sorry, i guess it would have been more polite for me to ask ya if ur datin someone first. my bad lol


2. hey how is it going? im not sure if we know eachother haha so i thought i would write and say hi and all! how are you? just by the way you are really pretty ha


3. hey......you look very very familiar have we met?

4. Hey sunshine, ya know, you seem like one of the few girls whose personality can actually match their smile.. haha.

Shopping.. Im looking for a bada$$ smile... how much for yours?


5. hey, I dont think we've met and this is pretty random lol but i  think you're beautifulll and would love to get to know you. I dont want to come off as just another creepy guy lol I just had to say somethin. If you feel any different dont hold back in saying so. Otherwise maybe we can meet up and get to know each other

6. hello there i know you dont know me and im sure you hear this all the time but you are beautiful its breathtaking im david by the way maybe we can talk

YUP..you guessed it. These are REAL messages! CREEPY RIGHT?!

Moral of the story: THIS is NOT klassy people!

Please don't be a freak show :)

Love Yall

xoxo Hay